Upset

I was just so upset yesterday and up until this mornin(not a nice way to start the week u'l say) Almost everybody was annoying me.

SA- He jst doesnt know how to keep to time, and he will just keep wiving it aside like the fact that we are running late doesnt matter at all. Yesterday we went for his friend's wedding thanksgiving and we were supposed to go for my friend's baby's naming ceremony. I asked him what time we were goingto get to my friend's place and he said to tell them 2. when we finished the thanksgiving aat 11.30, he then said we should start going to with his friend to their house(ISOLO) and i reminded him that we have to be back in ogba by 2. He said yeah we were still going to make it and that he wanted me to see their wedding album as he wants the guy to come and take our wedding pics.

We got to Isolo and these pips just start faffing around, when it was 1.30 i say to him we have to start going, he then says his friend's wife has started cooking and we have to wait to eat besides he wants to eat pounded yam. we waited and at 2.30 she brings the pounded yam which was filled with lumps( I was laughing wickedly in my mind)

the wedding album;I saw the pics and i am like i dont like this guy's work, there is a way that wedding albums look these days and that is what i want. SA became angry that what more do i want, but i just wouldnt be bothered. Imagine the photographer cum video man forgot to take pics of the bride as she was coming into church he was busy taking the choir and i told SA as much. He then went on and on about how i want to waste money on just pics, he is not interested in photobooks and i musnt pay a photographer to do it. I was so upset.
We get to my friend's at 4pm, and luckily everybody told him how if i say i am coming at 2 i actually mean 1.30.

SA's Siblings-In my enagagemnet list they asked them to buy obi abata(kolanut) and Atare( I dont know the english word for that) Thats how they went up in arms saying they are xtains and those things are usually used to worship some gods. My dad says to them we are a a xtian family and we wont be worshiping any god with it. But they just wont stop, saying all sorts about how this is not the 1st time they are goingto marry smbdy so why do they need to buy that stuff. Meanwhile my dad says no eng without those things. Their self-righteous behaviour is getting to me. I asked SA to go and tell my dad himself his siblings are having sleepless nights over those things but he should pls leave me out, cuz i am just getting pissed at them feeling like they are the only xtians on earth.

K-This is my friend who is married by the way. He jsut refuses to accept that marriage makes all the difference. He thinks we all can still be as cosy as before. So he has now become so clingy and annoying. He always calls to say how u didnt ask after him and how he has been at work( and i am like pls reserve this gist for your wife) I was just upset with him yesterday, if i dont call u everyday it doesnt ,mean u are out of my mind, but i dont spend my waking thots thinking about you silly.

My sis-She can be so rough and obstinate at times. She will scatter the whole room and if u tell her to arrange it she just wont. I was so upset with her this morning. She has scattered this set of documents around the room for 2 weeks now I keep teling her to arramge it and the silly girl just wont. I had to rake for her this morning.

Enough of my rantings, I wish u all a God-filled week

Introduction and some other stuff

Hey, its been quite some time. This new job ehn. I have been so busy its embarrasing. I get home late and i have to leave early. I used to think i was a morning person but apparently i am not. I feel so tired and grumpy in the morning.

It was my introduction on sat, Kai i was looking so beautiful even me Icould not believe it. SA just kept saying how beautiful i was( bet the guy cant believe his good fortune). I had to take friday off at my new job, i felt so akward asking for time off but i had to do it and my boss was cool with it.

so I travel home on friday and my mum is besides herself with excitement. she kept telling me how she still had plenty things to do and how she still needded to dust our already sparkling house.
Daddy S and Mummy S ( u rmbr them) came on friday as they were suposed to have an inner cacus meeting with my parents. the meeting was going on well until daddy S said he couldnt buy some of the things on the engagement list beacause of his conviction. My dad went up in arms saying we are also a xtian family amd that we were not taking those things to the shrine of any god. ( i felt Daddy S was being unreasonable tho) Daddy S now says they will go and think and pray about it.

so saturday came and we were all excited it was supossed to start at 12 but SA didnt get to Ilorin until 1.30 by which time i was really annoyed. He said they missed their way. I was so embarrassesd and SA has this non-challant attitude sometimes.

we start and it goes on very quickly as a lot of people had to travel back. All my aunties and Uncle were there. When the alaga asked me to kneel in front of SA it felt a lil bit strange especially since i was beefing him.

so now the planning for the wedding proper starts. but btwn u and me I dont know where the money i"m going to spend for this wedding willl come from. i am only just trusting God.

I ave been going round nice and interesting blogs, just havent been dropping comments. I will get a move on with dropping comments.