SA's pips

Thank you guys for all the nice comments. I feel a lot more better now, still dont know how to tell my folks sha o! But I guess I will cross that bridge wheni get there, which bythe way might be this wekend as they will be in Lagos .

To more happier things. SA is the last born of his dad and mum, he has 7 elder siblings, one of them is late so presently he has three brothers and three sisters. ( dont u just wish you were in my shoes) Anyway thats not all SA's mum died a longtime ago so his dad remarried . Rite now he has 4 younger siblings ( a large family you would say)

Ok now to the main gist, his elder siblings are all funnny in different ways. Let me start from the first person i meet

Sister D-She was just ordinary and quiet. She was more interested in when i am going to visit their old man. We dont see much of her sends a lot text messages saying hi.

Broda H( broda is the yoruba way of reffering to your elder sibling or someone older than you)- He meets me and says oh I am so glad to meet you.have you told your parents will they allow u marry my brother because your dad is a prof. Are u ready to marry my brother seeing that you are a lawyer and lawyers have lil or no regard for their spouses. finally he says i hope you know we dont wear trousers in our family(like its a family taboo or something) At this point I am thinking please be quiet.
Broda H is a nice guy who just says it the way he sees it. SA said not to mind him about the trouser thingy( I wasnt planning to anyway)

Daddy S( he is the first born) so we get to call him daddy. Daddy S and Mummy S are deeper life pastors. So there was no way i was allowed to wear trousers to their house, I had to resort to my ankara skirt and blouse. They were more concerned about whether or not we were having sex.They said we should make sure we are never alone 2geder, we should get a support system.

Sister T- She is very quiet too, she kept greeting me and saying epele ma. I was wondering whty she was using MA for me, but she is also a pastor's wife so I guess she was trying to be humble.

Broda R- He was really acting funny, later he said the problem is this trouser you are wearing. you can wear it in your husband's house but never to my house( point noted, remind me to never visit him).He also said are u sure u are ready for marriage as most lawyers think they are too big when it comes to marriage. In my mind i was like please cut the crap and say something new, your brother already said that.

Late Broda K's wife-She was really pleasant and very happy to see me. We bonded immediately and we started making wedding plans together.

Sister M-I am yet to meet, not looking forward to it tho.

So who still wants to be in my shoes and marry into a large family.